A friend asked, "what is important this year?". I replied, "what do you want to develop?" Many of us think, next year I will be more successful, loveable, peaceful, slimmer, more attractive and have a better family life. This kind of happiness is as rare as being struck by lightening! There is just more disappointment about not achieving goals.What was forgotten was a change in thinking. After my experience in the jungle of London I realized that I had to develop flexibility.